October 04, 2011
— Guest Blogger In the WSJ this morning, Bret Stephens writes of Barack Obama and love. Read the whole thing, but here's the conclusion.
What is it that Mr. Obama doesn't like about the United States—a country that sent him hurtling like an American Idol contestant from the obscurity of an Illinois Senate seat to the presidency in a mere four years?I suspect it's the same thing that so many run-of-the-mill liberals dislike: Americans typically believe that happiness is an individual pursuit; we bridle at other people setting limits on what's "enough"; we enjoy wealth and want to keep as much of it as we can; we don't like trading in our own freedom for someone else's idea of virtue, much less a fabricated concept of the collective good.
When a good history of anti-Americanism is someday written, it will note that it's mainly a story of disenchantment—of the obdurate and sometimes vulgar reality of the country falling short of the lover's ideal. Listening to Mr. Obama, especially now as the country turns against him, one senses in him a similar disenchantment: America is lovable exactly in proportion to the love it gives him in return.
This brings to mind a quote I read recently while Obama was on his jobs tour. Compare and contrast, if you will, this story from a few weeks ago:
“A gentleman came in yesterday and started talking trash about Obama… He hired a new employee last week, so he made a comment that ‘I’ve created one new job — what has Obama done?’ ”
“For somebody’s who’s going to come in and be the great unifier — you know, that hopey-changey stuff — it hasn’t worked very well. The country is more divided now than it’s ever been. And he doesn’t appreciate other people and what they do.”
The first is a quote from Apex, North Carolina, from a small businessman. The second is from New York CityÂ’s Diana Taylor, Mayor BloombergÂ’s girlfriend. How in the world did this SCOAMF unite them both? Work, work your thoughts back to 2008. Republicans nominated some old guy who knew very little about the free market (and what he knew, he didnÂ’t particularly like), staffed by a bunch of people expert at turning minor crises into full-blown race-defining events. He lost. And some of us decided ObamaÂ’s political operation was just staggering. How did they elect such a liberal guy? His campaign must be run by supergeniuses. Rahm and Axelrod would eat our lunch, Chicago-style, for eight solid years. He was surrounded by the brightest lights of progressivism. They were as staggering as Christina Hendricks in a wet t-shirt contest.
I remember sitting at dinner with one of the smartest guys I know in politics, multiple state-wide races won, asking whether there was any shot to unseat this guy after one term. “Honestly? No,” he told me, “Mostly because I don’t want to think about the amount of awful that would have to happen to the country for him to lose.”
A whole lot of SCOAMF later, here we are.
Ever since Barack Obama arrived on the national scene, a debate has run through the right about what his true nature was as a politician. What motivated this guy? Was he a true lefty believer, or was he a triangulator playing the cards he was dealt? The domestic policy said one thing, the Gitmo/interrogation policy another.
With so little to go on, many of us writing back in 2008 – myself included – overestimated his abilities and the abilities of those around him. We thought he was a more leftward-tilting Clinton or JFK, equipped with everything needed to frustrate our efforts for a decade.
Watching him now, given all these thoughts I once had, is just painful. What’s amazing is how obvious his act has become – how apparent the fraud is to most Americans, with rolled eyes and quiet laughter as if mocking a bad toupee (what’s that Orszag? Oh, we’ll get to you). Rahm’s gone, and Valerie’s running everything – well, her and a bunch of Yes Men. And now, at his most pathetic, he’s finally admitting publicly what was behind his questing political career from the get-go.
My argument from the beginning regarding Obama has been that his priority is not policy – not the wholesale remaking of American life into a progressive utopia – and that much of the talk of his formative years in leftward extremism is itself far too extreme. He is, of course, a liberal. He thinks that American capitalism is inherently unfair, yes. He thinks the mechanisms of government are better, and more ethical, than the competition of the marketplace. And he thinks America is not particularly exceptional, any moreso than other nations. But none of these are particularly radical positions for his side of the aisle. They are not his priority in life.
No, what he wants most – what he needs most – is to be loved.
A great many politicians cope or struggle with depression during their careers. One of the reasons so many successful politicians come from broken homes, and a surprising number with alcoholic or absent fathers, is the natural tendency for those who must learn to earn the affection and attention they receive from the earliest point in life to develop far more adept skills at such things later in life. But this also tends to warp your priorities as an individual – it tends to make you far more dependent on the loyal affection of those you care about, or those you don’t (when Ronnie talked about Nancy saving his soul, he wasn’t exaggerating).
In some cases, this turns men into thin-skinned lonely guys, divorced from reality. In others, it turns them into gaping maws of desire and designs, creatures equipped with abounding charm and endless appetites – see Bill Clinton or Anthony Weiner or Marion Barry or any number of other politicians, and understand there are thousands more who’ve never been caught.
In the case of this president, the affection he craves goes even further. He doesn’t appear to be satisfied in close relationships at all. He needs the swelling masses. He never loved the music – he loved the groupies, the lines of people waiting to see him, cheering him as the Adonis who turns winter into spring, as I think Jonah Goldberg put it.
And that brings us to Orszag, doubting the merits of that whole democracy experiment. And who can blame him – we're little children who don't know what's good for us. If we can’t show our love for The One, do we really deserve to pull those levers?
Of course, OrszagÂ’s skepticism in functioning democracy is well-founded, historically (it is, after all, the worst of all forms of government, except for all the others). It tends to annoy those who are supremely confident in their own abilities to re-order society, to fix things, to fix people, and for the utopian dream of humanity to finally be fulfilled under their august rule. Maybe in Thomas FriedmanÂ’s "China for a Day".
But this concept is an illusion, just as communism without the jackboots is an illusion. It’s a concept older than the road to serfdom, and more often trod. “Planners hate to force agreement” indeed, but if they feel they must, they will – by reconciliation process, by underhanded legislative tactic, or by suspending or ignoring the laws the people passed to protect themselves from exactly this type of vile exploitation of governance. Elected office is not a right, but a privilege – even though no one elected Orszag to anything except the Hair Club for Men.
Yet there’s something deeper still than all this, beyond the utopian concepts which undergird Orszag and Friedman’s arguments, beyond the love-chasing Obama. There is doubt, incredible and heavy doubt. Not in themselves, but in the people – in the promises they have to make to get their plans passed, and in our ability to ignore them after the plan goes into effect. “This is a great great country that had gotten a little soft,” The One says, and yes, you should feel ashamed. You need him – he does not need you. Remember your Bertolt Brecht:
After the uprising of the 17th of JuneThe Secretary of the Writers Union
Had leaflets distributed in the Stalinallee
Stating that the people
Had forfeited the confidence of the government
And could win it back only
By redoubled efforts. Would it not be easier
In that case for the government
To dissolve the people
And elect another?
Steve Hayward wrote of Jimmy Carter as a man who ran for office promising “a government as good as the people” and ended his term by saying the people were no good. Obama is at the same point now. He needs the love, needs the cheers of the eager crowd, needs that constant affirmation – to be told he’s doing well – in order to remain confident in his ability to change the world. When we fail to deliver, he is disappointed, but unbowed. He knows that WE are the problem, and HE is the solution. “I only want the best thing for you, and the best thing for you would be me.”
And if we reject him? Well, we reject our messiah, a prophet cast out by his people, who knew not what they did. The Christ comparisons are getting more and more explicit. The pursed-lips world book tour will last until the end of days.
He is the SCOAMF he has been waiting for.
Adapted from a daily email newsletter I write, The Transom.
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Posted by: Retired Buckeye Cop at October 04, 2011 04:07 AM (M0NzJ)
Posted by: Harry at October 04, 2011 04:08 AM (6vI2V)
Posted by: Harry at October 04, 2011 04:10 AM (6vI2V)
He is the SCOAMF he has been waiting for.
Posted by: cowboyup at October 04, 2011 04:10 AM (9oNaP)
Posted by: Jimmah at October 04, 2011 04:13 AM (g9KCn)
On Sunday, I happened across a staunch Dem at a hunt club function (alot of bubbas present). He was shepherding a fiscal conservative Republican House of Delegates member around--introducing him to the attendees. This Dem told me he only voted for Democrats for federal jobs.
He said Obama was doing a great job, but needed more time.
This is a case where those who can see put on blinders. It is amazing to me.
Posted by: kelley in virginia at October 04, 2011 04:15 AM (/Sgtl)
And Apex, NC. LOL. The last time I was there it was a little hole in the wall with a Chinese Restaurant as its major buisness. Maybe it has grown.
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 04:15 AM (M9Ie6)
They were as staggering as Christina Hendricks in a wet t-shirt contest.
My mind pretty much stopped processing anything after reading that.
In other news, not one, not two but three cars with Obama 2012 stickers nearly hit me on the way into work this morning (yes, for once it was not my fault, one backed out blind right in front of me and two tried to merge into my lane from exit ramps). I may, possibly, have informed them in a kind, Christian manner of my opinion of them and their intellect as displayed by their bumperstickers. Seriously, I think it's completely fair to presume that someone driving a car with an Obama 2012 sticker on it will be operated by someone who needs flashcards to remind them how to breathe.
Posted by: alexthechick at October 04, 2011 04:16 AM (VtjlW)
Posted by: Sub-Tard at October 04, 2011 04:17 AM (0M3AQ)
Booting Hank out of Football didn't consider the combined affect on those formerly loyal ticket buyers who always used to go to the stadium but don't like the groping this year, that replacing the all-American sport.
It's not your daddy's football game any more.
Posted by: didn't take long at October 04, 2011 04:19 AM (lpWVn)
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 04:20 AM (M9Ie6)
Posted by: phoenixgirl at October 04, 2011 04:21 AM (eOXTH)
Lot of Northerners coming in and potential Obama voters. That is why he is there.
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 04:22 AM (M9Ie6)
This is not the SCOAMF you are looking for.
Posted by: Obi Wan Benbooby at October 04, 2011 04:23 AM (Iaxlk)
I remember sitting at dinner with one of the smartest guys I know in politics, multiple state-wide races won, asking whether there was any shot to unseat this guy after one term. “Honestly? No,” he told me, “Mostly because I don’t want to think about the amount of awful that would have to happen to the country for him to lose.”
bingo! this is the first presz in a long time that folks wanted to root to succeed. His approval when he enetered office was the best from an in-coming prez since LBJ and LBJ was just getting support and unification from JFK's death. He garnered 40% approval among Republicans, something that Clinton saw early into his economy booming 2nd term right before Lewisnkygate hurt his image. Folks were talking landslide in 2012.
alas, here he is w/ an average approval of 43%. Republicans dissaprove of him in record numbers and indys have fled. Yet he is still graded on a curve. He's competitive w/ the top tear GOP candidates & blows the backbenchers away. Folks are hoping and praying that a boom begins overnight and they can re-elect History, but the hope for that is fading away. this guy is VERY beatable in 2012, more then he was in 2008. However don't forget we're gonna have to make the Country let go of someone they really liked.
Posted by: AuthorLMendez (Ban k1rwm) at October 04, 2011 04:25 AM (yAor6)
15 I just went to the linked article. Yes, that town has exploded from all the people moving in for the research triangle.
Lot of Northerners coming in and potential Obama voters. That is why he is there.
Yep, left many moons ago, but the trend had been set. At some point a place ceases being attractive and morphs into another pre-fab stucco construct of low-cost modernity. Add too many yankees and it becomes intolerable. Funny, I get lost there now.
Posted by: Sub-Tard at October 04, 2011 04:25 AM (0M3AQ)
I started paying attention to your post after that.
Posted by: EC at October 04, 2011 04:26 AM (GQ8sn)
I think it's important to note that Rush Limbaugh was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT from DAY ONE about this SCOAMF. A lot of people on the blogs seem to be embarrassed about Rush, probably because of his bombast.
But he was Absolutely Right when all the other supposed great intellects in the GOP were absolutely wrong. He was right to say "I Hope He Fails", too.
He's still right today.
Posted by: Tom Servo at October 04, 2011 04:26 AM (/7hoP)
He needs the swelling masses
And yet he doesn't like them. From talking about how they just didn't understand the health care issue to now saying "shut up and create a job". That's so very different from Clinton.
Posted by: Mama AJ at October 04, 2011 04:26 AM (XdlcF)
Posted by: phoenixgirl at October 04, 2011 08:21 AM (eOXTH)
i'm sickened by any Super Bowl Half-Time show
Posted by: AuthorLMendez (Ban k1rwm) at October 04, 2011 04:27 AM (yAor6)
in other news, not one, not two but three cars with Obama 2012 stickers nearly hit me
You need an "Obamanos" bumbersticker (h/t Legal Insurrection). They'll think you're one of them until it's too late.
Posted by: Mama AJ at October 04, 2011 04:29 AM (XdlcF)
Oh what a surprise, another RIGHT WINGER making DEROGATORY COMMENTS about PRESIDENT OBAMA'S SKIN.
HAVE YOU NO SHAME??!!?!?!?
Posted by: the motherfucking race police, bitch at October 04, 2011 04:29 AM (xWk3U)
Posted by: Sub-Tard at October 04, 2011 04:29 AM (0M3AQ)
Posted by: phoenixgirl at October 04, 2011 08:21 AM (eOXTH)
Is she going to sing with "her" "British" accent? Hope no one tries handing her a bouquet of hydrangeas they scrimpped and saved for to give her because, maybe, they admired her music for years... only to have her say, in her fake Brit accent, that she "detests hydrangeas." (Hint, Madonna: the correct term is, "Thank You So Much! How Lovely!," you self-centered sow)
Personally, I detest pop stars that sound like Minnie Mouse on Helium.
What a pathetic pretentious cow this woman is.
Posted by: Obi Wan Benbooby at October 04, 2011 04:30 AM (Iaxlk)
Yes, Apex has grown a lot. It's turning into another Cary though. Lots of Northerners coming down for their jobs, which leads to explosive growth and traffic congestion.
Posted by: EC at October 04, 2011 04:30 AM (GQ8sn)
Posted by: CoolCzech at October 04, 2011 04:31 AM (Iaxlk)
Posted by: didn't take long at October 04, 2011 08:19 AM (lpWVn)
so what?
Posted by: Roger "Fuck Up" Godell at October 04, 2011 04:33 AM (yAor6)
I remember when it was a sleepy little Southern town with that Chinese restaurant, a quick-mart/gas station, and a Ramada Inn (that I used to stay at).
And Cary wasn't much bigger at that time either. I would not want to live there now.
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 04:33 AM (M9Ie6)
Posted by: Pecos Bill at October 04, 2011 04:36 AM (j84s0)
Posted by: Mama AJ at October 04, 2011 04:38 AM (XdlcF)
Posted by: alexthechick at October 04, 2011 08:16 AM (VtjlW)
I've only seen 1 Obama 2012 bumper sticker down here in St Pete, FL, I gave the guy a look and he gave me a look like he was whimpering away
Posted by: AuthorLMendez (Ban k1rwm) at October 04, 2011 04:38 AM (yAor6)
Posted by: Jimmah at October 04, 2011 08:13 AM (g9KCn)
you thought that Carter was bitchy about his legacy as one of the worst Presidents? you thought that Clinton was bitchy about his legacy as the guy who got caught in the White House and not after he died? Wait until you see Obama's post-presidency bitch-fest
Posted by: AuthorLMendez (Ban k1rwm) at October 04, 2011 04:40 AM (yAor6)
There's a flaw in the logic here. If he only wants to be loved (agape/phileo) then why hasn't he moved to the middle? Is he afraid to lose the passionate love of the far left and only have the middling love of the rest?
I still go back and forth on whether he's a fuck up or an extreme leftist. I can support both probabilities with strong arguments. However, the strong leftist looks like a fuckup here because the philosophy doesn't work. Anywhere else it wouldn't matter because you'd already be dead. He has no love of this country and that's fucked up by itself. I also think 'ol Valerie Jarrett doesn't do him any favors anymore.
Posted by: dagny at October 04, 2011 04:45 AM (f6bS8)
Posted by: coondawg68 at October 04, 2011 04:48 AM (VhcOZ)
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 08:15 AM (M9Ie6)
Actually, Apex (the postal code and the phone exchanges) includes the whole area that used to be forest and farm but are now Cary suburbs. In fact, MacGregor Downs which was that area's Hamptons is "Apex" but with either a Cary or Raleign mailing address. I have no idea if the actual town of Apex has grown/been gentrified but the adjacent area went gangbusters in the 80s and 90s. It may have shrunk back a tad in the last 3 years.
Posted by: dagny at October 04, 2011 04:49 AM (f6bS8)
Where affirmative action, combined with Marxist treachory backed by corrupt millions of dollars from George "Spooky Dude" Soros, can buy a presidency for complete fraud.
Posted by: TexBob at October 04, 2011 04:49 AM (7cXE7)
There's a flaw in the logic here. If he only wants to be loved (agape/phileo) then why hasn't he moved to the middle?
Because the love, the real deep love, the screaming crowds, adulation, bowing at the feet kind of love...that comes from the left. The best he can get from everyone else, indies and the right, is respect.
Respect isn't good enough for him. He needs the love.
Posted by: Sean Bannion at October 04, 2011 04:50 AM (sbV1u)
Posted by: Mama AJ at October 04, 2011 04:50 AM (XdlcF)
Don't forget 40 years of PC, so that any criticism of a half black SCOAMF can be discounted as racist. Hell, even discussing his past, his connections and influences is racist. In fact anything other than uncritical love is racist.
Posted by: real joe at October 04, 2011 04:56 AM (w7Lv+)
Posted by: MWTexas at October 04, 2011 04:56 AM (N05oL)
I had a friend who bought a house there in Megregor Downs when it first opened up. I went to visit him and was told couldn't park next to the curb on the street.
When he told me about all the deed covenants he had I choked. At the time I think he paid $300K for the house (about 2000ft2). I suspect they are running over $1M now.
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 04:56 AM (M9Ie6)
No surprise. Obama's emotionally impaired and ideologically stunted.
Mmmmmmme, mmmmmme, mmmmmmme
Barack Hussein Obama
Only those wearing politically acceptable blinders ever "believed" in Obama's creative genius. They based their faith in squalor, as if "community organizer" meant anything more than neighborhood bully or town thug. Hell, even Stephen Diamond, the Santa Clara based Labor attorney exposed Obama's past in detail before some media allowed others to print stories. As if coblogs here bothered following up on the links provided all that '08 build-up period into campaign mode. What's most disgusting isn't that people like Obama exist, but that people elect the Obamas of the world; and once elected, his loyal opposition amounts to melted butter for his gravy train.
Obama isn't the only one crying to be loved by the masses. Name the constitutional hill that lawyers were willing to defend, let alone to die on. They cling bitterly to whatever influence that they presume, kicking and screaming at "radical" constitutional conservatives. And after Obama's bus runs them over, they cry "foul" that the love shared was a hoax, shocked that Obama would use them. Others, yes. But them!
"When we fail to deliver, he is disappointed, but unbowed. He knows that WE are the problem, and HE is the solution. 'I only want the best thing for you, and the best thing for you would be me.'"
Unbowed to America, Potus Bowow is hosting his bff China at the AsianPacific trade alliance in Hawaii next month. That is where Obama hopes to find true love. Where does the most despised American go after losing office? Btw, where's Obama's seemingly identical brother, last seen in Beijing? One and the same, speculate.
Posted by: didn't take long at October 04, 2011 05:03 AM (lpWVn)
Respect isn't good enough for him. He needs the love.
Posted by: Sean Bannion at October 04, 2011 08:50 AMI don't think he "wants love" at all. Nor, as you say, does he want -- or give a shit about -- respect.
What the stuttering clusterf*** of a miserable failure really wants is to be served. He wants that mixture of fear and blind obedience that was given Papa Doc Duvalier, Idi Amin, Uncle Joe Stalin and Robert Mugabe.
It's all about him. Osama Obama believes that America -- and, in fact, the entire world -- owe him obeisance. He believes that the mere fact of his existence entitles him to rule. He is, simply, the Messiah.
In other words, the Traitor-in-Chief is one sick mofo.
I don't see any other answer. He is living out those dope-dreams from his ganja and whatever else back in his college days.
Posted by: MrScribbler at October 04, 2011 05:05 AM (YjjrR)
Posted by: EC at October 04, 2011 05:05 AM (GQ8sn)
I don't think he "wants love" at all. Nor, as you say, does he want -- or give a shit about -- respect.
I didn't say he wanted respect. I said respect was the best he could get from those who aren't hardcore lefty. We're never going to love him. But respect was an option for many independents.
What the stuttering clusterf*** of a miserable failure really wants is to be served.
I agree with that. But, isn't that how you demonstrate love? When you're head over heels for someone don't you go out of your way to do nice things for them? Indeed you do.
In other words, the Traitor-in-Chief is one sick mofo.
Amen, brother. I'd kill to see his psychological records.
Posted by: Sean Bannion at October 04, 2011 05:09 AM (sbV1u)
For the narcissus, "love", or more accurately adoration, must be on their terms. He needs a mirror, with a glory hole.
Posted by: Jean at October 04, 2011 05:12 AM (WkuV6)
He needs a mirror, with a glory hole
That is a line I am going to use many times between now and November 2012.
Posted by: Sean Bannion at October 04, 2011 05:14 AM (sbV1u)
"I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave."
Jareth, Goblin King, Labyrinth
Obama, POTUS, America
Posted by: didn't take long at October 04, 2011 05:20 AM (lpWVn)
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Posted by: Forks Over Knives Epub at October 04, 2011 05:42 AM (AEzwr)
So basically, the SCOAMF is more fucked in the head than wackos like Ahmedinejad or Khaddafi?
We are so screwed.
Posted by: Roy at October 04, 2011 05:44 AM (bm4vI)
You can be both. Believe me.
Posted by: tommy friedman at October 04, 2011 05:47 AM (8zV0C)
Right on about his need for feeling the love, which is why we will see him deliver an unprecedented number of campaign speeches in the next thirteen months. When he is in front of the TOTUS, the adoring audience waiting with baited breath, he must be thinking it's just the best it can be for him.
All venues will be carefully chosen and the audience members vetted, to ensure that he will be loudly cheered on as he takes it from one applause line to the next, his tempo and timbre rising to make for good video clips, all of which will be shown in primetime news by his pom-pom girls in the MFM.
He'll get a little thrill up his leg, too, from those many one-on-one "interviews" he'll grant to softies that love him, like Brian, Matt, and Andrea. Carefully-edited vids will go immediately to the airwaves. Who needs expensive campaign ads when your buddies will do them for free?
He'll feel good about the love, and the MFM will feel good about delivering us the news of him basking in it.
A nice little fantasy world.
Posted by: I'm in a New York state of mind at October 04, 2011 06:03 AM (4sQwu)
Posted by: Michael Rittenhouse at October 04, 2011 06:11 AM (2Oas0)
The U.S. had its golden age of invention and innovation between the 30s and the early 60s. Funny that after LBJ hit the scene it all went to shit.
Posted by: Vic at October 04, 2011 06:44 AM (M9Ie6)
I disagree. The problems in the U.S. are not "aging and risk adverse". The problems are government interference, over-regulation, and crony socialism.
Who's fault is all that stuff?
Democracy is the belief that the people know what they want and deserve to get it, good and hard.
Posted by: Entropy at October 04, 2011 07:27 AM (IsLT6)
Clinton loved the crowds but loved giving love (or a resemblance of that) back. He reflected the crowd's adoration.
Obama takes the love and hoards it. He sucks up the crowd's energy like The Blob sucked up electricity. He keeps it all for himself, never giving any back.
There's an astronomical term for a dead star that sucks up energy. Not going to use that term as it would be racist, and it's too early in the day to denounce myself.
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