August 26, 2013
— Monty [I asked Juliette Ochieng -- our own "baldilocks" -- to write a short essay for the HQ on the topic of race and violent crime. She very graciously agreed. (Keep the comments civil!) You can find more of her very insightful stuff at her personal site. You can also find information on her book, Tale of the Tigers, at her author's site. --Monty]
A few weekends back, I made my way from my home in South Central Los Angeles to Albuquerque--where my parents and the vast majority of my family reside--for the wedding of my oldest nephew. During the twelve-hour drive, I contemplated the personalities of my nephew, his brother, his sisters, his male and female first-, second-, and third-cousins and his male cousins by marriage. All are great young people.
Something that remains perennially in the news is the rate of unemployment for black teens, just over 40%. But here's a thing about my family: my five nephews and my six first- and second-male cousins are all employed! (My nieces are all under sixteen and my two female cousins--both lawyers, like their father--are in their thirties.) How could that be?
Well here's one thing: only one of them lives in a blue state. So much for the alleged racism of Republicans. But their states of residence--New Mexico, Texas, and Oklahoma--aren't the only factors; the others are more personal.
- All are high school graduates.
- Three are attending two-year colleges, two attend a four-year university, one attends a technical college, and two are four-year university graduates.
- All are literate, well-mannered and well-spoken They don't even speak patois to their friends.
- None have criminal or misdemeanor records.
- All are prompt and know how to dress for employment. None have adopted the saggy-pants style.
- Only one has a child and he is in his mid-twenties.
So what is this about? Only four of the young men have been raised by political conservatives. Two are illegitimate. Several are children of divorce--like me. All of them, however, have been raised by actual conservatives. So it is that they would not shame their families by failing to be responsible men.
My oldest nephew--the one who just married--is probably the most taciturn of the group. But he's not so shy that he was unable to woo, win, and marry a smart, accomplished, and very beautiful young woman to be his wife. And here's something about the two, my nephew and my niece-in-law: both of their sets of parents are married to each other. And one thing about my nephew's parents--my sister and my brother-in-law: both of their parents are still married to each other. (My mom and stepdad have been married for 41 years and my brother-in-law's parents have been married for over 60 years.) And each generation consists of hard workers who have always wanted more for their children than what they had. This is what is known as a pattern.
But illegitimacy need not be a factor in producing children of poor character. Several months ago, I posited that illegitimacy by itself isn't what has caused the breakdown of the black family and the consequent breakdown of black moral character. The cause? Government subsidy of illegitimacy. When a child, especially a boy, grows up without a father, he will often run wild if there is no other male authority to which he is answerable--an uncle or grandfather, for example. But when children grow up in communities in which there are no male authority figures, when they grow up in communities in which there are few to no married couples, a people run wild.
The widespread (over 70%) illegitimacy among black Americans can be likened to the biblical fall in the Garden of Eden. Satan talked Eve into eating the fruit that God had forbidden and she talked Adam into eating it. This original sin will destroy most of humankind. The government talked black women into having babies without benefit of marriage and this phenomenon has nearly destroyed black Americans. Yet another pattern.
But just as there is redemption to be had in the heavenly realm, there is a way for black Americans to keep themselves from been destroyed here on earth.
Recently, CNN's Don Lemon--no political conservative, to be sure--was called a "turncoat mofo" for agreeing with Fox News' Bill O'Reilly that black people need to clean up their act with respect to being 'good citizens'--a phrase used because that is what I was exhorted to be when I was growing up in the much-maligned 1960s.
Mr. Lemon's seemingly simple prescription is powerful.
You want to break the cycle of poverty? Stop telling kids they're acting white because they go to school or they speak proper English. A high school dropout makes on average $19,000 a year, a high school graduate makes $28,000 a year, a college graduate makes $51,000 a year. Over the course of a career, a college grad will make nearly $1 million more than a high school graduate. That's a lot of money.
And number one, and probably the most important, just because you can have a baby, it doesn't mean you should. Especially without planning for one or getting married first. More than 72 percent of children in the African-American community are born out of wedlock. That means absent fathers. And the studies show that lack of a male role model is an express train right to prison and the cycle continues.
And there was this on Twitter:
dress nicely. use appropriate language. keep ur surroundings clean. go to school. be responsible, involved parents. That's offensive? SMH
— Don Lemon (@DonLemonCNN) July 28, 2013
For his trouble, Lemon was excoriated--which included being labeled a “turncoat mofo” by MSNBC’s Goldie Taylor.
But if I had a dollar for every turn coat mofo who made it up and out, then cut the rope ladder behind him...
— Goldie Taylor (@goldietaylor) July 27, 2013
"Turncoat mofo?" No. The turncoats are those who urge black other black Americans to keep doing the same things over and over again while, each time, expecting a different result. The turncoats are those who would exhort black Americans to keep riding that express train to poverty, illiteracy, prison and ruin. Like the feral teens that are a plague on our society, pattern-recognition is foreign to those who screech ‘turncoat mofo’ to a man who imparts the tried-and-true wisdom that black Americans used to impart to their progeny.
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I have been called a conspiracy theorist--not to mention the equivalent of a ‘turncoat mofo’-- a number of times. However, if most political and social conservatives can acknowledge that there are forces consisting of more than a single individual which conspire to destroy America-as-founded and the ideals on which she was founded, then it is plausible that such forces have used and are using strategies—by definition, long-term plans--to achieve their aims. It is for this reason—and for the vision of my lying eyes—that I put forth the following ‘conspiracy theory.’
For many decades, black Americans hoped and prayed to be considered equal to other Americans under the law--federal, state, and local. Well that goal has been achieved. It has been long past time for black Americans, as a whole, to do their part. What happened there? ItÂ’s this: too large a number of us have fallen prey to those who have always wanted to keep us down, keep us enslaved, and, ultimately, destroy us.
I submit that the Organized Left and the Democrat Party—now one and the same--have long been trying to rid our country of her black citizens. That goal is now almost reached. Think about it: blacks are vastly outnumbered by whites, Hispanics and others. And blacks have been purposefully splintered in this way: we have been duped into nearly destroying the one earthly and seemingly unshakable foundation we had. That foundation is known as the family.
The feral teens we see today are the fruit of the splintering; they are angry and they know not why. They never learned fatherly discipline--and the compromised education system never bothered to inculcate in them the desire to think through situations. Often the only "men" in their lives are other mindlessly angry little boys wearing the bodies of men. Multiply this by millions.
So now, they are beating and killing innocents of all races out of boredom or avarice or whatever excuse they want to give. But the real problem is mindless and pointless anger, stemming from the lack of proper parenting by both mother and father.
But here's the thing. Non-black people are already tired of their loved ones being raped, shot, beaten, etc. for merely walking around, for the crimes of others or simply for not being black.
And when some set of white or other non-black persons begin to retaliate; it will go badly for the splintered minority—both the guilty and the innocent--for numerical reasons alone. As a result, the Leftist-infiltrated government will come in and "save" however many black people are left, but goal will be reached: black people will be almost exterminated in the USA and whites and other non-blacks will be the slaves.
That's been the plan all along...to kill all of us and enslave all of you non-blacks.
I am grateful to God that the young men in my family are fine, upstanding citizens. But I tremble for my people--Americans--as I watch the fruit of the rotten and satanic tree called Leftism poison us all, one way or another.
ThatÂ’s why I pray to Lord who provided us with the Lamb who took away all of our sins. ItÂ’s our only hope, and I submit that it always has been.
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Posted by: cu'chelsea at August 26, 2013 04:21 AM (Vk2CC)
Posted by: trainer's looking for a Militia to join... at August 26, 2013 04:21 AM (K5X44)
Meghan Cox Guford talked about meta-memes in her speech. What the War on Poverty and cries of "Its for the poor!" by this government has done is in fact the reverse. With our own money, this government over the decades, has bribed people into doing the habits that the money was claimed to help ameliorate.
Thank you Baldilocks.
Posted by: Chelsea Puma (+SmuD) at August 26, 2013 04:22 AM (SxI9Z)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:27 AM (/PCJa)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:27 AM (/PCJa)
I think this statement is part of the problem for a lot of the people on the gubmint dole. They don't want to see someone elses success as a blueprint to betterment. They don't want to work to improve their own life. And they want those that have, to give up most of what they did work for so they can get down into the pit with them.
Posted by: Bruce at August 26, 2013 04:28 AM (z0JJm)
Posted by: chelsea danger at August 26, 2013 04:31 AM (46rS/)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:32 AM (/PCJa)
Posted by: sinalco at August 26, 2013 04:33 AM (7580N)
But otherwise, it is an excellent piece on what ails the black community, in the opinion of a white conservative who has long pondered about how the black community can work to cure its own troubles.
Posted by: flounder at August 26, 2013 04:35 AM (Kkt/i)
Posted by: @JohnTant at August 26, 2013 04:37 AM (hNNJ5)
http://www.dailygood.org/view.php?sid=264
Posted by: Chelsea Puma (+SmuD) at August 26, 2013 04:39 AM (SxI9Z)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:40 AM (/PCJa)
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Posted by: nothinglefttolose at August 26, 2013 04:45 AM (AoY8i)
Posted by: Chelsea Puma (+SmuD) at August 26, 2013 04:46 AM (SxI9Z)
I find it appalling and worthy of pre-emptive action. The Left is eroding everything that is good and worthy about humanity. Perhaps this is why the fascination with zombies. Mindless rotting uniformity, knowing nothing but hunger, and slavering to consume those few unique individuals who have held out.
Posted by: Feynmangroupie at August 26, 2013 04:46 AM (Kw0EL)
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Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:47 AM (/PCJa)
Posted by: backhoe at August 26, 2013 04:47 AM (ULH4o)
It seems to me to be more about protecting the special privileges and immunities afforded by perpetual victimhood
I don't know, Flounder. Remember...this is the Dem party....remember their history. I have often found it suspect how fast they had their "conversion" on race. I don't necessarily agree with the idea of a goal to eliminate blacks, but most definitely think there is a program of "new slavery" (economic slavery?). I mean, look how monolithically blacks vote for the Dems and what do they get for it? Has there been any improvement for them in exchange for their undying loyalty?
Posted by: FITP at August 26, 2013 04:48 AM (y+rwf)
Amazing. So right. My husbands father left when he was 13 and his mother raised him. But her father was a NYC firefighter he saw every day and he would rather have died than disappoint him. He was best man at our wedding.
The family is key, they set limits, say no, discipline, establish boundaries, set priorities, create an atmosphere where "good citizenship" and responsible behavior is the expectation. Government is the disease, family is the cure.
Wonderful essay
Posted by: thunderb at August 26, 2013 04:49 AM (zOTsN)
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Posted by: fastfreefall at August 26, 2013 04:54 AM (SymT1)
people need to understand that the things Baldilocks and Don Lemon and Cosby and the other "race traitors" and "mofos" are talking about ARE the rope ladder. They are telling them how they did it.
Her point is not that her nephews are conservatives, its that they make conservative life choices.
Posted by: thunderb at August 26, 2013 04:54 AM (zOTsN)
Posted by: commentorior at August 26, 2013 04:54 AM (d3e1C)
The Left has been fomenting a race war for a long time.
I pray and hope folks of all races understand the hideous destructive results the Left hopes to achieve, and with that understanding resists the rhetoric and actions which assists the Left's manipulations.
Posted by: Tonawanda at August 26, 2013 04:55 AM (GeFHE)
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Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 04:57 AM (/PCJa)
Posted by: alexthechick - Here SMOD SMOD SMOD at August 26, 2013 04:58 AM (iotB+)
Posted by: no good deed at August 26, 2013 04:58 AM (WmLrU)
Even the Islamists who took over our Iranian embassy adopted the left's attitudes towards the black Americans they encountered. (Book by Mark Bowden which title escapes me)
Posted by: typo dynamofo at August 26, 2013 04:58 AM (URNUb)
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Posted by: EC at August 26, 2013 05:02 AM (GQ8sn)
Rather than hold him up as one who made good they despise him.
Posted by: typo dynamofo at August 26, 2013 05:03 AM (URNUb)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 05:06 AM (/PCJa)
Posted by: misanthrope at August 26, 2013 05:06 AM (YNWNJ)
Posted by: nothinglefttolose at August 26, 2013 05:07 AM (d4o2E)
It seems that most of the people that I know of who have been successful, especially in the face of adversity are perfectly willing to share the secret of how they succeeded. They don't clutch this knowledge against their busom, and try to hide its existence, nor its content from others who may benefit from it. They are willing to shout it from the mountaintops. But, that knowledge seems to often fall upon deaf ears. For if one were to compare that knowledge to the life choices they have made, it would force one to introspectively surmise that they themselves have contributed a significant portion of the reasons contributing to their own position in life. And that is a bitter dose of medicine to swallow. And it is more difficult to get someone to accept that truth when it seems that every liberal entity out there is busy telling people the exact opposite, that it's their unfortunate, unfair and uncontrollable lot in life that they were dealt a losing hand in the card game of life.
Linking from Insty is another powerful article that shares some of the same insight.
http://tinyurl.com/kwfhhu5
Posted by: Village Idiot's Apprentice at August 26, 2013 05:07 AM (SfGRU)
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Posted by: commentorior at August 26, 2013 05:09 AM (O/gHF)
I forgot to say thank you for this post, and your sharing your families story with us.
Posted by: Village Idiot's Apprentice at August 26, 2013 05:10 AM (SfGRU)
Posted by: steevy at August 26, 2013 05:10 AM (9XBK2)
Posted by: AllenG (Dedicated Tenther) MFM Delenda Est at August 26, 2013 05:11 AM (/PCJa)
When I first started on Wall Street back in the '80's, there was a real press on to hire black people to work on the municipal side. See, a lot of the cities and states we were selling services to were run by black people and we were told they were tired of seeing rich white men across the table, which is kinda understandable.
We weren't selling anything a black woman couldn't sell just as well and we knew it. So the call went out that if you had a degree and could present yourself and your product ably, this was a great path for you and the money was outstanding, too.
For whatever reason, this career path didn't appeal to the best and brightest--we never found more than a handful of candidates--and to this day I wonder why.
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Posted by: Dirks Strewn at August 26, 2013 05:14 AM (VLifP)
Thanks, Juliette Ochieng, for a beautifully written ode to a hard-working American family and to sorting out the issues that lead to success and a loving family life -- not race, not "legitimacy", not poverty, but commitment, caring supervision of kids, and personal responsibility. I have added your site to my daily wanderings.
One further thought. I think we give too much attention to the malignant, blinded, untruthful ones, say those on MSNBC and other "main stream media" sites. How many people watch? Unfortunately I see them quoted and highlighted on multiple "conservative" (actually intelligent) sites way too much. It gives them the kind of notoriety that they are seeking. Yeah, they are narcissists, but I think we feed their self-aggrandizement and desire to appear "radical" or outrageous too much. I say let's begin to ignore them and turn our attention to those who deserve it.
Anyway, thanks for a beautiful essay and for speaking truth both to power and to those who have adopted feral ways. Let's continue to call criminals what they are: criminals. Let's protect the lives of those who value life and work so hard to make it worthwhile for their loved ones.
Posted by: pyromancer76 at August 26, 2013 05:14 AM (lkzqA)
You who this more appropriately describes? Blacks who make it big and then preach the thug life. Snoop, Jay Z, etc. glorify all of the wrong behavior when they themselves are likely very driven, tenacious, hardworking people to achieve their success.
Posted by: Lizzy at August 26, 2013 05:15 AM (UrtRh)
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Posted by: Chelsea Puma (+SmuD) at August 26, 2013 05:16 AM (SxI9Z)
One thing you didn't mention was religion and the role of church in the family - did this play any part in your family's life?
Posted by: Lizzy at August 26, 2013 05:16 AM (UrtRh)
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Posted by: Decaf at August 26, 2013 05:17 AM (rkmiy)
Nothing good, I imagine.
As much as I love my mother, it's my father who had the most influence in shaping who I am today.
Fathers matter-- especially to boys. As many stupid, reckless, and irresponsible things I did as a kid, there were some lines I would not cross for fear of bringing shame upon my dad and facing his disappointment (which, as scary as his wrath could be, was far, far worse.)
Few things anger me more than seeing how the left has systematically belittled and undermined the importance of fatherhood.
Posted by: Warden at August 26, 2013 05:18 AM (bmp0d)
Great essay, baldilocks, and I agree that the family is the foundation of all society. It's why I think social conservatism ties well with fiscal conservatism. As we see more and more, neither socon or fiscon have much life with either the Dems or the 'Pubs.
Given your description of your nephews, I'm not surprised they are doing well in "red" states. Racists exist on both end of the spectrum. But in my experience, most conservatives don't give a damn about race, gender, age, etc. when it comes to hiring someone. What they (I) care about is: 1) Can this person get the job done? and 2) Is this person trustworthy?
If you speak proper English, have a resume that is free of misspellings or other obvious mistakes, and dress in a manner appropriate to the job you are seeking, conservatives will give you a chance. If you speak or write in text/twitter language, have a crappy resume if one at all, and look like a disinterested or troublesome individual, you'll never get a call and blame others for your failures.
While there are cultures and subcultures in our society, and these do influence the behavior and expectations of individuals, conservatives still try to determine the merit of the individual. Liberals deny the existence or relevance of the individual, insteading collecting and treating all members of a pre-determined group as a monolith.
Posted by: Virginia SoCon once again! at August 26, 2013 05:19 AM (+/C3g)
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Posted by: Chelsea d'afrique, late to the meme at August 26, 2013 05:20 AM (r+7wo)
Posted by: alexthechick - Here SMOD SMOD SMOD at August 26, 2013 05:21 AM (iotB+)
That was an excellent paring of insights that while disconcerting, highlight the concept of Taking a Stand obligatory at this point.
I'm not talking about Right Wing Conspiracies Against the Government, just forgetting "going along to get along" and confronting leftist sewage, agitprop and faux logic and fairness wherever it raises it's serpentine head.
I've never felt like popularity was an important goal (and in my case a convenient out) but I've long found that confronting marxist BS is easy, once you blow off their screaming and name calling because they've GOT NOTHING ELSE.
Taking Personal Responsibility goes hand in glove with Constitutional Individual Rights and Freedoms. It is that idea that has been undermined by Statist marxist progressives.
I would agree with Baldilocks that Blacks appear to have been targeted while having had the cynical, corrupting hand of Big Government extended as a counter intuitive Trojan Horse and vote acquisition device/narcotic dependency.
Great Stuff folks
Baldilocks, you should start thinking about getting a blog going.
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Posted by: mindful webworker, privileged to be human - sorta at August 26, 2013 05:24 AM (EYfcP)
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Posted by: ejo at August 26, 2013 05:27 AM (GXvSO)
This is true.
However, consider the following anecdote.
When I was a small child, in the early years of grade school, my father worked to support the family, and man, did he ever work. I hardly ever saw him. Nights, weekends, he was always grinding away.
But even that wasn't enough, and my mother had to go to work as well, and started having to put in her own long late hours away from home and family. I became one of the first of the so-called "latchkey kids".
What partially filled that vacuum of parental involvement in my life was having several very strong female teachers at school. And when I say "strong", I mean absolutely dedicated no-nonsense smack-of-the-ruler disciplinarians. They expected hard work. They required timely attendance. They intended that I perform, and woe betide me if I did not do so.
But I am white, and they were white.
That model breaks when white teachers face similarly disruptive and/or unmotivated black pupils. Especially white women dealing with black males.
If I threw spitballs in the back of class, Mrs. Marshall (with eyes in the back of her head) would detect it, stand me up at my desk, verbally adumbrate my failings, tell the rest of the class not to follow my sorry example, and have me go stand silently in the corner with my face to the wall for the rest of the hour. It would never have occurred to me to challenge her authority, and I would not have had any standing had I tried to. Again, no cross-racial dynamic in play.
A black male in the same position, being similarly sharply publicly rebuked by a white for failings of comportment or classwork, can go to his parents, the parents can raise a hue and cry of "Racism!", and the teacher's career will take a torpedo below the waterline. Few teachers will run that risk any longer.
Thus, no discipline and no focus, and the worst of rowdy young male habits go uncorrected. A recipe for frightening long-term dysfunction.
Posted by: torquewrench at August 26, 2013 05:28 AM (gqT4g)
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Posted by: ABC at August 26, 2013 08:52 AM (oJQ+J)
Good Lord. How about "What the fuck is wrong with you?" as a response?
Posted by: Insomniac at August 26, 2013 05:28 AM (DrWcr)
Posted by: Lizzy at August 26, 2013 05:28 AM (UrtRh)
To some extent it is economic but that doesn't explain how some manage to break the chains and others don't In the end, taking God out of the equation also removes hope. "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can" that little engine that could falls prey to "I know I can't" and it is not limited to only people who are born black.
I remember being shocked when eric holder made his speech early on in the administration. In my world things seemed fine. That speech was like dropping a small bomb on my successful black friends. They began wondering what was wrong with them that they weren't seeing what he was seeing and they weren't feeling what he was feeling. One of my particularly pensive friends was concerned that "the weak" as he described them, would fall prey to assuming that holder's experience was more universal than their own individual experience and he felt this was bad for the black community. He called it "rap music for the educated". He felt it was like fielding a template for how you were supposed to feel if you were successful and black so that you would feel bad about your success. I don't remember holder's speech except that I was shocked but I do remember my friends' reactions to that speech. They began to shore one another up to validate one another's feelings to encourage one another. They began talking to each other to make sure holder's experience wasn't the norm, it wasn't.
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Posted by: Chelsea d'afrique, late to the meme at August 26, 2013 05:29 AM (r+7wo)
Posted by: JQP at August 26, 2013 05:29 AM (U4GjV)
ThatÂ’s why I pray to Lord who provided us with the Lamb who took away all of our sins. ItÂ’s our only hope, and I submit that it always has been.
"I tremble for my country when I reflect that God is just; that his justice cannot sleep forever."
- Stuff Thomas Jefferson really said.
Posted by: Mary Poppins' Practically Perfect Piercing at August 26, 2013 05:29 AM (zF6Iw)
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Posted by: The Stupid Hurts at August 26, 2013 05:29 AM (oDCMR)
ThatÂ’s why I pray to Lord who provided us with the Lamb who took away all of our sins. ItÂ’s our only hope, and I submit that it always has been.
"I tremble for my country when I reflect that God is just; that his justice cannot sleep forever."
- Stuff Thomas Jefferson really said.
Posted by: Mary Poppins' Practically Perfect Piercing at August 26, 2013 05:29 AM (zF6Iw)
Posted by: mindful webworker, privileged to be human - sorta at August 26, 2013 05:31 AM (Lo5Rt)
To be continued....
Posted by: Chelsea d'afrique, late to the meme at August 26, 2013 09:09 AM (r+7wo)
Agreed. And you know why? Present-day Africans, like other *voluntary* immigrants, self-selected to come to America. Such group are naturally composed of go-getters.
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 05:32 AM (Tnlh/)
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Posted by: Krebs v Carnot: Epic Battle of the Cycling Stars[/i][/b][/s] at August 26, 2013 05:34 AM (N6l/o)
"Turncoat mofo" -- you can take the girl out of the ghetto, but you can't take the ghetto out of the girl.
Well said, Juliette. Who knew bourgeois (sp?) values could be so transgressive?
Is your extended US family predominantly immigrant or second-generation? Asking because my workplace and social experience with first-generation African and Carribean immigrants is that they are very driven and upright and expect the same from their children.
Posted by: furious_a at August 26, 2013 05:34 AM (8lw4l)
Posted by: Oldsailors Poet Palin/Bolton 2016 at August 26, 2013 09:12 AM (XIxXP)
He does; and three of the patriarchs--my step-dad, uncle and great-uncle--are pastors.
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 05:34 AM (Tnlh/)
But if I had a dollar for every turn coat mofo who made it up and out, then cut the rope ladder behind him...
I believe it was Gore Vidal who said, "It is not enough that I succeed; others must fail." I would love to ask this woman, just how had Lemon "cut the rope ladder?" Was he given opportunities that no longer exist? Was he deliberately going around saying, "don't hire any more blacks. One is enough?"
I understand self-hatred. I don't understand expanding that attitude to every successful person who doesn't toe the victimology line.
Posted by: Mary Poppins' Practically Perfect Piercing at August 26, 2013 05:34 AM (zF6Iw)
95- torquewrench,
Of course, though, you mentioned two aspects in your life that aren't present in the scenario you listed. 1) You had parents who worked HARD. Sure, your father "wasn't there" most of the time, but he was. His example of hard work, and your mother's, made a impression on you. 2) You didn't dare talk back or disobey your teacher because you knew that your parents would side with your teacher. If students in modern urban schools knew that a note or a phone call from the teacher would result in a whooping or other real punishment, that environment would change.
Posted by: Virginia SoCon once again! at August 26, 2013 05:36 AM (+/C3g)
And I pray that this doesn't break down into a race war as it appears it is heading. As you said, there will be a lot of innocents killed while the race mongers like JJ and Sharpton will most likely leave the country on the sly.
Posted by: Vic at August 26, 2013 05:36 AM (lZvxr)
Posted by: and irresolute at August 26, 2013 05:36 AM (2qM95)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 05:36 AM (aH+zP)
His plan was not to exterminate the black race, but to capture its unquestioning support by offering free sh*t in place of personal responsibility.
As someone mentioned on another blog today
"Dependable, loyal voting stock"
Posted by: Village Idiot's Apprentice at August 26, 2013 05:38 AM (SfGRU)
Posted by: mindful webworker, Anglo-Germanic-American, I think at August 26, 2013 05:39 AM (osdNx)
I had two black women in one of my classes who consistently did well, although one was outstanding. At this time, the mining and petroleum industries were actively recruiting minorities and women with good starting salaries.
I spoke to them about changing their majors from whatever liberal arts program (probably urban studies) that they were in. They were very polite, but later I was walking down the hall ant they were laughing about it. Because geology was such a WHITE major, who needed it?
Today, that woman could be retiring as an officer in Exxon or something, with a boatload of bonuses and stock options in her retirement account.
I assume she got a job as a cleerk in county government or something. Maybe she even decided on career welfare parent as her field of choice.
Because, after all, science is white people's stuff. Bah.
Posted by: Miss Marple at August 26, 2013 05:40 AM (GoIUi)
Posted by: Chelsea d'afrique, late to the meme at August 26, 2013 05:40 AM (r+7wo)
Posted by: NRPax at August 26, 2013 05:40 AM (U+O64)
- Stuff Thomas Jefferson really said.
Posted by: Mary Poppins' Practically Perfect Piercing at August 26, 2013 09:29 AM (zF6Iw)
I linked to the quote.
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 05:43 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: panzernashorn at August 26, 2013 05:43 AM (MhA4j)
Posted by: rickb223 at August 26, 2013 05:43 AM (FNtJ6)
The South Asians whom the Brits brought to South Africa and Uganda to build their railroads became the most prosperous non-whites in those countries. The Chinese who were brought in (only men were allowed, no families) to build U.S. railroads were treated worse than the Irish , shoved into ghettos, and now nobody else can get into UCLA. The native-born black family was at least as intact prior to the 60s anti-poverty programs, urban riots and ghetto culture as the white family is now.
Posted by: furious_a at August 26, 2013 05:46 AM (8lw4l)
Posted by: panzernashorn at August 26, 2013 05:49 AM (MhA4j)
And, besides, light-skinned blacks are smarter than dark-skinned blacks:
Posted by: furious_a at August 26, 2013 05:49 AM (8lw4l)
three of the patriarchs--my step-dad, uncle and great-uncle--are pastors
BINGO
I am Jewish but that is another key. A spiritual life, supported and driven by both parents, but especially by the fathers, is kryptonite. You cannot beat it. It will arm your children for life with core values, respect for others, and respect for self
Posted by: thunderb at August 26, 2013 05:53 AM (zOTsN)
Posted by: tired at August 26, 2013 05:54 AM (adOUE)
Families are the secret weapon that the Left duped black Americans into giving up.
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 05:54 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: thunderb at August 26, 2013 05:58 AM (zOTsN)
Thanks baldilocks for that great essay. It's just one more reason I love this place.
I must pass along this "moment" from last Friday night at my gig, even though it happened in the men's room: I was the only white guy in there, and there was one youngster inside the next stall whose dad (I assume) was standing outside waiting for him to, um, finish.
Said youngster was singing musical scales and generally enjoying life at volume, which just tickled the rest of us to no end. Everyone was laughing and smiling at and with each other, which I'm sure led the other patrons to wonder why we were all exiting the bathroom chuckling.
It's just one of those things that surpasses any type of artificial racial barrier and gets to the source of our humanity. It's what life is all about. I can't help but think that maybe even The Big Guy had a laugh too.
Posted by: BackwardsBoy, who did not vote for this shit at August 26, 2013 05:58 AM (0HooB)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 05:58 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: ABC at August 26, 2013 06:00 AM (oJQ+J)
Juliette, I always admired you and your professionalism when we worked together. And I see that you're still making the world a better place. One of these days before my Last Post, I'd love to see you again.
Posted by: Cinncy Office of the IR Fuckin' S at August 26, 2013 06:01 AM (JNtXS)
Families are the secret weapon that the Left duped black Americans into giving up.
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 09:54 AM (Tnlh/)
It's not just blacks who have been duped. Look at the divorce rate. People are opting to get married at an older age, if they get married at all. Successful women are having babies out of wedlock, by choice.
Posted by: caustic at August 26, 2013 06:03 AM (/b8+5)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 06:04 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: thunderb at August 26, 2013 06:05 AM (zOTsN)
"Several months ago, I posited that illegitimacy by itself isn't what has caused the breakdown of the black family and the consequent breakdown of black moral character. The cause? Government subsidy of illegitimacy."
And, doubling down on failure, the government is continuing to subsidize illegitimacy, and the poison is rapidly spreading into ethnic communities other than blacks.
White illegitimacy rates have risen steadily since LBJ's "Great Society" kicked in. Not as sharply as among blacks, but still a troubling and damaging increase. Due to the same source. Goverment subsidization of dysfunctional behavior.
But it's by far the most notable among Hispanic immigrants. Heather MacDonald's brilliant piece on "Hispanic Family Values?" over at City Journal should be required reading.
http://www.city-journal.org/html/16_4_hispanic_family_values.html
And again, the identical root cause. Government subsidies.
Near where I live in Commiefornia, one of the local cities has a centralized welfare office. One-stop shopping for the underclass to pick up their EBT, WIC, SNAP, AFDC, SSI, Section 8, Obamaphones and voter registration forms.
The sign for that welfare office reads "CENTRO DEL SERVICIOS", in that language only, which should be a big bright neon sign telling you how the welfare demographics are shaping up in Commiefornia in 2013. And your suspicions will be instantly confirmed if you look at the crosswalk outside, which is full of freshly immigrated Hispanic female teenagers pushing baby strollers.
Not only are these girls popping out kids before graduating from high school, they're not slowing down after the first one. Many of them are visibly pregnant again already. Why? Because the rest of us are being forced by government to subsidize their doing so. It's a rational "career" path for them.
This won't end well. Not for them, not for us. Not for anyone.
Posted by: torquewrench at August 26, 2013 06:05 AM (gqT4g)
Hmm. And I thought Monty was a person of pallor.
Great essay, Monty!
I came up with a humdinger the other day myself. If you'd like to read it it's in the comments section at:
http://tinyurl.com/leuha57
I think you'll be able to pick out my screed. Hint: it's the longest one and has to be clicked on to open fully.
I was really pleased with what I wrote. I didn't think I had it in me to be articulate and stuff.
Please take a moment to read it and tell me what you think about it.
Thank you.
Posted by: Ed Anger at August 26, 2013 06:05 AM (tOkJB)
Posted by: BCochran1981 at August 26, 2013 06:07 AM (da5Wo)
Posted by: Rufus T. Firefly at August 26, 2013 06:07 AM (uxi9i)
Posted by: panzernashorn at August 26, 2013 06:07 AM (MhA4j)
Thanks Juliette, have always enjoyed your writing.
No conspiracy theory to me.
There is always something going on that is not quite apparent, but no less real.
The focus on gender, sex and race in every single thing has it's germination somewhere...
Posted by: Rev Dr E Buzz Feminist at August 26, 2013 06:08 AM (raGXo)
Why would NBC news alter a tape to add to the racial component of the GZ trial, and also hire Al Sharpton?
Is there a reason ever given for any of that shit?
Posted by: Rev Dr E Buzz Feminist at August 26, 2013 06:09 AM (raGXo)
Posted by: panzernashorn at August 26, 2013 06:11 AM (MhA4j)
Monty, that was excellent. I mean, seriously. You are such and excellent writer and have a real gift. I always love reading your columns. And this was superb.
Posted by: Lady in Black at August 26, 2013 06:19 AM (XB5Ak)
Posted by: Monty at August 26, 2013 06:21 AM (G8OwX)
We were having this same discussion here the other day. Those of us that grew up in the 60's remember when African American communities were made up of strong families, with strong ties to God and Church. No more. The government and their own "leaders:" (or, as J.J. Sefton calls them, "vampires") have successfully turned many black communities into blighted lands in our big cities. Sad. Very sad.
Thanks again!
Posted by: Chi-Town Jerry at August 26, 2013 06:26 AM (f9c2L)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 06:27 AM (aH+zP)
Posted by: BCochran1981 at August 26, 2013 06:32 AM (da5Wo)
Posted by: Methos at August 26, 2013 06:32 AM (hO9ad)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 06:35 AM (aH+zP)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 06:39 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: Cindy Munford at August 26, 2013 06:44 AM (6MiMG)
OK, maybe I'm reading HS cafeteria into this when it ain't there, but if true, that's not exactly a ringing endorsement.
....the hell?
Posted by: ontherocks at August 26, 2013 06:53 AM (r6ygj)
"That's been the plan all along...to kill all of us and enslave all of you non-blacks."
I disagree with your conclusion. The plan, as I see it, is to perpetuate and exploit racial and class divisions in order to advance a (somewhat hazily defined) neo-Marxist socialist agenda. The disintegration of the black family is a byproduct of this agenda, not its central purpose. A hardcore, old-school Leftist ideologue would probably view the havoc wreaked on American Blacks as a whole as collateral damage, a necessary sacrifice for the greater good: eggs, omelets.
The rank-and-file true believers of the American Left are trying to find their way to Sugar Candy Mountain, where everyone is equal, abortions are free, all is sunshine and rainbows, and the pretty flowers pick themselves. They can almost see it, somewhere off on the horizon, almost within walking distance. The leadership, the ones in charge, aren't exactly the dreamer types and no doubt view their followers with a certain amount of contempt. They just want power, and they'll do anything to keep it and hold it and make it their own forever.
That's the way of things. That's always been the way of things.
Posted by: troyriser at August 26, 2013 06:53 AM (gNlvW)
They'd like for me to bring the article to the Yahoo Group page, but I don't want to do that without Baldi's ok. Help?
Posted by: BCochran1981
............
The fuck? Give them a link to this post. If they wanna read it bad enuff they'll come over here.. or.. fuck 'em.
Posted by: Chi-Town Jerry at August 26, 2013 06:58 AM (f9c2L)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 07:05 AM (aH+zP)
Posted by: laceyunderalls at August 26, 2013 07:16 AM (pLTLS)
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Posted by: naturalfake at August 26, 2013 07:20 AM (ZR4Xh)
Posted by: Meriadoc at August 26, 2013 07:26 AM (1W1S7)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 07:28 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: Clete Orris at August 26, 2013 07:36 AM (EG3YD)
Posted by: AmericanGypsea at August 26, 2013 07:37 AM (PY5T+)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 07:39 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: Bitter Clinger and All That (Ecclesiates 9:11) at August 26, 2013 07:45 AM (28TG+)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 11:05 AM (aH+zP)
My point is that, to the leadership of the Left, the disintegration of Black families (and all families for that matter) is incidental to the primary objective, which is the acquisition of power for its own sake. Marxism (and all other totalitarian/authoritarian ideologies) are just window dressing, the means employed to capture the allegiance of the proles. Power is always (and has always been) the goal.
Posted by: troyriser at August 26, 2013 07:48 AM (gNlvW)
Posted by: Brother Cavil, Your Ad Here! at August 26, 2013 07:48 AM (naUcP)
Posted by: Meriadoc at August 26, 2013 07:52 AM (vN3Mm)
That's been the plan all along...to kill all of us and enslave all of you non-blacks.
The Progressive agenda in a nutshell.
Posted by: The Atom Bomb of Loving Kindness at August 26, 2013 07:55 AM (jqHOY)
Thanks, Baldi.
Posted by: hmitchell3rd at August 26, 2013 07:55 AM (3YCXd)
Bitter Clinger, we are a couple of generations behind. In 20 years we will have 70% born out of wedlock instead of 30%. America will then be Venezuela, with a dependent majority that just wants its check every month.
I was raised in a great town but my parents were not so good. The school, friends, church--all those things saved us and helped us to become productive citizens today. The inner city is a desert of hope. I think most of the program money goes to cronies, not programs, to intervene with these children.
Posted by: pj at August 26, 2013 07:57 AM (ZWaLo)
Posted by: The Poster Formerly Known as Mr. Barky at August 26, 2013 07:59 AM (qwK3S)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 07:59 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 08:05 AM (Tnlh/)
And Bitter Clinger, the absence of a culture of fathers is what's missing, even among non-blacks increasingly, but that means there is no culture of order. Every day is a new, unstructured blur. Critical theory is all about the patriarchy, which stands for morality and order, which the left considers evil. The Leftists have tried to destroy order and have been quite successful.
Posted by: pj at August 26, 2013 08:06 AM (ZWaLo)
Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 08:11 AM (Tnlh/)
Posted by: Meriadoc at August 26, 2013 08:13 AM (YF3fb)
Posted by: Weirddave at August 26, 2013 08:41 AM (aH+zP)
Posted by: Advo at August 26, 2013 09:02 AM (7vbG1)
Some, if not most, of the participants of that rally this past weekend in DC would disagree.
Posted by: Blacque Jacques Shellacque at August 26, 2013 09:09 AM (Cn4aq)
Posted by: Carol at August 26, 2013 09:38 AM (zgOS/)
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Posted by: NateWhilk at August 26, 2013 02:48 PM (E13TV)
Great article, although I snorted beer out my nose when you referred to New Mexico as a red state. Is there a different New Mexico you're referring to? It can't be the one whose capital is Santa Fe. That state is like a little outpost of Bolivarism/ Marin County Limo Leftism.
Posted by: Delamare at August 26, 2013 06:07 PM (kJ7gC)
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Posted by: baldilocks at August 26, 2013 06:28 PM (Tnlh/)
You have to break a few eggs to make an omelet.
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